but mostly I’m in a forever panic hoping no one can tell how cowardly I have become, or how ashamed I am that I haven’t listened:
The function, the very serious function of racism is distraction. It keeps you from doing your work. It keeps you explaining, over and over again, your reason for being.
not a piece of wood
letting down– Cécile, Sanité, Dedée
Warrior mothers I can only imagine hurling bodies over fortified walls– war prisoners and weak soldiers alike– just hush up your whining we’re in charge now!
Girl, your knife is as dull as a short plank and WE ARE NOT TRAGIC, do you hear me?
I would love for my laugh to be a festival
To live a life in which I could say that and mean it
Beyoncé surrounded by assorted flower arrangements rubbing her rounded belly
Rihanna blowing smoke straight into the camera
Rihanna shaking white feathers and rhinestones at carnival
Rihanna at any time of day or night, frankly
Not anyone who is light-skinned and wealthy
I would like to be the two girls I saw on the train this morning, one with Afro puffs parted by a sharp zig zag down the middle of her head, the other with cornrows swinging past her shoulders, sharing headphones and dancing their joy onto the platform and out into the world
Or the me who hadn’t yet started to fake humility until it became a nervous tick
When I was all
Itchy frilled socks filling with dust after church, and still twirling for frame after frame of photographs
Fluffy ponytail balanced on top of my head in the only way my mother new to style my hair
Especially in these times, I realize I need to be
outrageous, audacious, courageous
To write us into revolution
Ink for poison, pen tips for murder
and other kinds of delusions
Instead I am here
crying through rain at the bus stop at 6am
jaw twitching resistance of false exuberance by 2 in the afternoon
By 10pm, roommates have to sweep up the shreds of my sorry self
And let me tell you about how in class white girls get to be basic and then offended by that label
“And isn’t this postcolonial stuff so dense?” means “Tell me you didn’t understand the reading either because there’s no way you can be better than I am at my own game…”
“Wow I’ve read your writing about colonialism. So powerful. Here’s more work for you. I want more.”
We’re all women first, sisters even
Empire wears an adorable pink hat with lopsided ears, don’t you know?
Out here struggling over words like Emecheta and bildungsroman
and ordinarily I would not judge and dismiss others by who wields this basic language best
For the sake of Black baby Jesus
I’m the one who isn’t making sense?
Alright, but what did we say about distractions?
Listen, I’m trying, ok? I’m finally over that guy and Becky with the split ends
[All sing refrain]
Oh honey, Daavi, not this again. Men absolutely do not treat us like that, and definitely not those with knuckles of that ashy nature. I mean at least let them be moisturized.
Are you listening? Look at me! And look at you:
Expending energy in self-doubt, crawling through the Internet for words of affirmation circled by hand drawn daisies and clouds, and supply store glitter
Unthreading at the seams,
you might want to get your fraying checked out,
But at least your self has more trouble to write about, right?
*In a letter to photographer Carl Van Vechten, Zora Neale Hurston said the following in reference to some photos he had taken of her, “I love myself when I am laughing, and then again when I am looking mean and impressive.” This quote is also the inspiration behind the title of an anthology of extracts from Hurston’s works edited by Alice Walker.(Go to the library and borrow that book, now. Or you know, wherever you get your reading material. Just read it!)
Image: This was taken by Lloyd K. Sarpong, best photographer this side of Dansoman, Somerville, and everywhere in between. I needed a headshot for a journal that will be publishing my work later this year, and it turned into a whole string of pictures because “we need to catch the light” *strong side-eye.* It wouldn’t be me if I wasn’t long-suffering and sarcastic, but I actually loved how these pictures came out especially because most of them weren’t posed.
I have two stories and a personal essay coming out this year, AND your girl is going to Barbados in May for the Callaloo Writing Workshop! It feels so early in the year to have this many exciting writing-related things to look forward to. I’m trying to put my joy in my pocket and keep on working, instead of feeling guilty for being wrapped up in personal pursuits when a lot of us are terrified of what Suntan Satan is going to do next. I keep reminding myself that everything I’m doing currently is helping me to improve my writing. As I’ve said before, my writing is the best thing I have to offer others, and I can only hope that it will be meaningful for whoever gets to read it.